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Twin Flame Signs and Symptoms – Lessons from 3 Twin Soul Couples

I have personally read a lot of stories from other twin flame couples to learn lessons from their twin flame signs and reunion lessons. Here are 3 couples which I find very useful and hope you can learn a thing a two if you are seeking answers for your on situation. Please take note that the content are from them and I do not take any credit for it.


Lesson #1 – From Mel Brand & Nicole Hibbs

Previous signs and symptoms found on almost every twin flame or soul mate website today have not been changed for the last 50 years or more. It is important to understand that spiritual awakening is constantly changing, growing, and evolving everyday.

With that thought in mind, every segment in society has advanced. Therefore the twin flame odyssey, its further acceleration of experience and consciousness needs to be addressed as well.

As of 2010 signs and symptoms listed below have been compiled from the personal awakenings of Mel Brand, Nicole Hibbs and several other sets of twin flames going through similar experiences. Spiritual growth is continual it never stops, even amongst twin flames.


1) Awakened twin flames have fully incarnated their higher self and they have between the two of them a shared higher self.

2) Awakened twin flames with one higher self have a direct connect with the oversoul or creator source essence. As such awakened twin flames do not require or need external sources of information. Example of such would be ascended masters, angelic beings or extraterrestrial entities.

3) Awakened twin flames are fully aware of their previous planned and selected incarnations that were chosen for the development of skills abilities, and psychological development for their mission in this lifetime.

4) Awakened twin flames are fully aware they have never been searching lifetime after lifetime for each other. They have always been ONE and are always aware of each others presence and whereabouts.  However both TWIN FLAMES AND SOUL MATES CAN EXPERIENCE INTENSE PULLING AND LONGING.

5) Awakened twin flames are the embodiment in physical reality in male and female form. They manifest as twin flames at a body, mind, spirit frequency.


6) Awakened twin flames under the guidance of the oversoul have created in different timelines, dimensions and realities additional life form beings. These beings are called essence selves, alternate lives, god essences, or soul extensions. When twin flames have awakened to a certain frequency of spiritual maturity in physical reality they will integrate energetically each of them the energetic body of these original soul extensions. Given time they will gain the conscious awareness, knowledge, wisdom and experience of these soul extensions. This is the new template presented by Jesus and Mary Magdelene for the evolution of humanity 2000 years ago.

7) Awakened twin flames will be able to accelerate the growth and ascension of the etheric body through the guidance of the oversoul in themselves and in the etheric body of other individuals. Twin Flames are a template.

8) Awakened twin flames function from a 12 chakra system, not a 7 chakra system as this is the old template of humanity.

9) Awakened twin flames have purged and cleansed their etheric body and karma does not exist in a twin flame union. Twin Flames who preach karma, create karma.

10) Awakened and fused twin flames have a fully functional etheric body meridian system and are fully aware on how to modulate the frequencies of energies of the planetary line up through this meridian system. Since they have this ability they function from a non-linear multidimensional state of consciousness, their awareness of events such as 11-11-11 or 12-12-12 is just another expression of frequency that they already have access to within their chakra system. This means that while others feel they experience a new energy, twin flames are always in the state of perpetual frequency. For example….a spaceship for the first time experiencing hyper drive. Twin Flames are always in hyper drive…..a continual state of motion backward & forward time.

11) Awakened twin flames are masters of their sexual energy. They are able consciously to move and circulate through all the bodies, transmuted sexual energy into co-creative acts. They are not ruled by their sexual energy.

12) Awakened twin flames have one energy field or energy body contained within that energy field a figure 8 or the infinity symbol connected to both of them in a certain fashion. This pattern of energy can be seen by a very good clairvoyant. If this pattern is not visible with one or both individuals, they are not twin flames.

13) Awakened twin flames are not triggered to emotional responses by energetic imprints contained within the etheric body. They are free from most emotional responses and are discovering the true potential and nature of the emotional body which is a vast reservoir of energy that can be used for higher spiritual growth. The etheric body contains the programming. The emotional body is the activator. It is also the gas tank or fuel. As such awakened twin flames will have in general a clear and radiant energy field or aura which will lack emotional content leaving the auric field a golden or silvery hue with radiant bursts of pink.

14) When a ONE soul being splits in two, for a planned incarnation, both will incarnate together. They may both not incarnate into physical reality but may choose a different reality or time line. One never remains in the spiritual plane while the other is incarnate. To do so is an illusion created by individuals in physical reality.

15) There are one soul beings (twin flames) who in planning their earthly mission plan deliberately prior to entering into the physical to not come together but to remain apart after an initial meeting. Because at an oversoul level depending upon the soul group or culture in which they incarnate their mission may be more fruitful in being of service by not coming together because they can accomplish more. This will be very difficult for some here at a conscious level to understand the overall mission plan of a twin flame couple. But the mission is priority.

16) At the present time on planet earth there are several hundred sets of awakened and fused twin flames that have come together in balance & service. There are hundreds of other only beginning to awaken or are only partially awakened because they are caught in belief systems and patterns that originate as such only here in this reality. Also most of these awakened twin flames are manifest in many different segments of society outside of the light worker & newage community. Most of these are not even aware consciously they are twin flames. They do their mission quietly and discreetly without fanfare and ceremony.

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Lesson #2 – From Carolyn Chipman

I need to caution that all of these signs are not “proof” of meeting the other half of your soul, very often we are challenged by the meeting of a “near twin” or karmic soul mate that can mirror all these signs. In my own experience, the man I believed with my entire being to be my Twin Flame turned out to be a karmic soul mate, and one of the most painful lessons of my life. More on that later. So here they are:


Signs you have met your Twin Flame:

Do you recognize yourself?  What you are seeing in the mirrored reflection is you!

1)  Upon the first meeting you instantly recognize them, feel like you have known them forever.  This can happen with soul mates as well so it’s not necessarily just with the Twin Flame symptoms.

2)  Your heartbeat quickens in their presence.  Sometimes even your head will pound.  At the same time there is an over riding sense of peace and calm.

3)  The usual time of getting to know each other doesn’t even seem necessary.  The relationship gets accelerated so fast and it usually initiates with an intensity and an immediacy which is not necessarily physical.  Because you feel like you have known them forever suddenly you are spending more time with this person than with any other person on the planet.  You both sense this urgency to be together or to make connection.

4)  You are forever seeing yourself in their eyes in a very real and all encompassing way.  The good, the bad, the ugly and the profoundly beautiful parts of yourself; the parts you usually blush about because you are afraid to say out loud “that’s one of my really good things”.  This doesn’t happen in most relationships as it’s usually the day to day things but it’s like looking into this mirror through their eyes and into your own soul.

5)  You will not have to dumb yourself down vibrationally to accommodate this person.  You interact with other people who you can’t speak their language, they just don’t get it, you can hardly connect with them on a vibrational level at all so you dumb yourself down.  You won’t have to do this with your Twin because you can say anything or be anything in their presence and they get it.

6)  Very quickly you will begin to feel a very high energy, almost an orgasmic energy, between you.  Sometimes this is felt in the lower centers and is taken for passion, a chemical reaction, which is very common, but where it lands is what makes the difference.  You feel it in your heart.  It’s like the whole explosion of energy as a release ends up coming to your heart instead of just to your loins.  If you feel it in your loins, pay attention to this.  Is it just that you want to have intercourse with them or do you want to be inside of them somehow or have them inside of you?  Big trigger!  It’s like how can I walk into this person, like intercourse wouldn’t be enough.

7)  There’s rarely a desire to be apart.  Now that doesn’t mean physically, you may have the opportunity to be with someone physically but it’s more like your attention is with them all day, like you are in their body suit, that you will feel them.  They can be half way across the planet and there’s no desire for any kind of separation, it’s you connecting with you and so you are intuiting what they are experiencing.  You feel when they are sad, you feel when they are happy, you feel when they are angry.  So when it’s said that you rarely want to be apart that’s true.   If you are together all the time, you very often have complimentary vocations, or avocations in which the work one of you is doing is multiplied by the other and vice versa but without any sense of competition.  Nobody is trying to control anything.

8)  There is NO co-dependence.  Co-dependence is a big red flag.  It’s a symbol of the illusory Twin, the False Twin.  So pay attention there.  If you go searching for someone and you are attracted to them for any number of reasons and all of a sudden that relationship becomes co-dependent, you can bet ego is smack in the middle of it.  These are two sovereign beings with no need to own or control each other.

9)  The telepathic connection is really strong.  When you are in each others presence you literally start finishing each others sentences.  Sometimes it’s just saying out loud what the other person was thinking.  Now that can happen with soul mates too but it is really common with Twins and right from the beginning, not like living with each other for 30 years and you are doing it because you have been in each others presence for so long.  So reading energy is common because we are all interconnected but when you start saying out loud what the other was just thinking very early in the relationship, that is a really big signal.

10)  There’s a greater awareness to your joint purpose and it almost always involves some sort of service to humanity on a larger scale.  The combination of your acquired talents to bring more light to the whole.  Now this doesn’t mean that you have to be like one person an actor and one person a writer, it could be that your acquired talents are energetic talents, like you really know how to hold a field together and you can just live or be together and create these massive fields of love for the planet and act as an anchor point.  That might be the service, it doesn’t mean you have to be out front and center, teaching anything or being the guru.  Your living it is the service.

11)  It’s absolutely effortless to be in a constant state of giving love to this person with absolutely no thought of what‘s going to be returned.  There is no question of “what’s in it for me” going through your mind.  Because you are giving so much love, that energy grows exponentially and becomes so magnified between you that there is this constant flow of palpable energy between all of your chakras not just your hearts, all of your chakras.  It’s this coming together and going apart and coming together and going apart.  It’s like coming into union and stepping back and being a sovereign being.  This happens whether you are physically together or apart, you feel it, it becomes like a rhythm for you.  This is happening because as you give this love it’s like a self-regenerative energy that you subliminally agree to pass between you, it’s like you are feeding each other in a very unusual way but you are feeding each other this energy of love.

12)  Also you are going to feel a deep sense of unity that you’ve never known before, like a single unit.  It’s like you have locked bodies somehow and you are walking around and doing these amazing things without having to conform to each others personality.

13)  You will very often, especially if you are doing any kind of energy work together, you are going to move out of time and space altogether a lot.  Sometimes just instantly without even thinking about it.  It has to do with being truly present in the moment, the now moment, with this beloved.  Whole days can pass without even noticing any expenditure of energy that might otherwise be difficult in the tasks of your day.  When you practice working in the heart field, you start accessing it so often, sometimes you will just slip into it without consciously creating it.  That is always out of the time space continuum.

14)  Absolutely anything that stands in the way of either of you opening yourself completely to true love is going to rise up to the surface and be right in your faces in an exaggerated and magnified manner.  Any Karma that might stand between you from having bumped into each other or working with each other in other lifetimes is going to show up in a big hurry.  Even though you may start with this passionate affair, suddenly all this stuff is going to come up and it’s coming up so you can dissolve and consume the illusions that are standing in the way of you actually holding only love at the nucleus of your relationship.  When that happens, if you will both promise and commit to remain in the heart and choose love instead of judgment, all those limitations can be accepted and loved free very quickly.  They come up not to be re-engaged in, they come up to be dissolved and consumed.  If you make a list of every grievance you have with your beloved, and you brought it up without re-engaging in the whole history of everything that’s ever happened between you and then you burn that between you as a symbol and then use the Violet Consuming Flame.  This is just a ritual and a powerful gift between you that allows you to break all those interior barriers to giving and receiving love.  That takes a commitment, it takes building that muscle to do that.

15)  If you are involved with a partner in a sexual relationship, there is going to be an inner, deeper, natural understanding of the sacred union between you.  And you will so swiftly learn to control and utilize the sexual energy for higher purposes.  Sacred Sexuality has been translated throughout the history of mankind to come through the Kama Sutra, which has in modern times been marketed as a tool to sustain an orgasm with another human being, just a physical sensation that you can sustain for hours if you want to.  True Kama Sutra is exciting the electrons in the body and then raising that energy of orgasmic expression into every chakra.   When you start experiencing sacred sexuality, that will not only happen, but then all of it will come back together in your heart in an explosion.  You can’t even imagine how incredible that is because it’s so far from anything you have experienced for a physical orgasm in your lower chakras that nothing else will ever match up.

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Lesson #3 – From Gabriella Hartwell


The twin flame journey is about remembering. It is about remembering that you already know your twin flame, as you already know the mutual soul intention of what you have desired to create, individually and together in this lifetime. This is a powerful time right now on Earth, as we are joining together with our soul families, our soul mates and twin flame, to anchor in depth the unconditional love vibration moving forward. Do you remember that you wanted to have a part in this? Do you feel that there is a reason why you chose to be alive right now?

(In the movie AS IT IS IN HEAVEN, there was a line, “imagine that all music already exists, just vibrating there, just waiting for us to listen and to be ready to take it down. Everything is about listening.” – this is how the remembrance happens – it is allowing yourself to listen, remember, choose, and receive).

Ok, so if the twin flame journey is about remembering, what does that mean? Well, there are layers of remembering. There is a soul remembrance of the essence of you, your twin flame, which is inside of you, so it starts there…and then you bring that energy into your conscious awareness, adding another layer to your memory of this other part of you. At this point, you then choose to send that energy into the universe so that it will attract your twin flame to you in the physical. It is important to notice all of the signs around you because they are there for reassurance but also to guide you along the next steps on the journey. Stay connected to your heart as you know that there is always connection in every moment with your twin flame and be true to yourself. Know that you deserve the deepest love your mind can imagine and your heart can feel.

Another layer of remembering is knowing what your passion is so that you can bring that into your life in all ways, and therefore, emanating from a space of being in your authentic self. If we are looking at your souls plan as what you intended to create in this lifetime, then there is something that you will recognize that you are passionate about, which will point you in the direction of your life purpose…and you will find that this life purpose will be in alignment with your twin flame. As you step more fully into this, you will be on the way towards the full reunion and your mission with one another.

As you continue along, you will encounter other souls along the path, your soul mates, that have intended to assist you along the journey as you have agreed to assist them also. The connections with your soul mates are an essential part of the process of being with your twin flame, for they help you to transition out of ego based mentality, behaviors, beliefs, emotions, etc, and they can do this with unconditional love, increasing the frequency of this love between you and your twin as well as with all that is.

When you connect with your twin flame in the physical, you have the opportunity to recognize the soul within the physical body/vehicle, a deep knowing that will vibrate within your soul, and this is something only YOU can feel and be certain of. Only you can feel and be certain of this because it is a memory within your cell makeup which has been built on many lifetimes of experiences and deep love shared, as well as your mutual intentions for this lifetime, right now.

Many things can happen during the time you come into the physical with your twin flame. Perhaps you realize that you are not totally ready to take on the mission together, even if you recall it. You may have fears that come up, which are based in the ego, which would need to be transformed or released in order to merge with your twin and join hand in hand together, moving forward. With this, comes the balance of fully being present in the moment while also holding space for the next moment, patience for all the steps of the reunion to unfold as they will (for both of you need to be ready in the space of love), unconditional love for whatever your twin chooses in any moment (knowing that no matter what, you are never separated), faith in the guidance and support of the universe to help you in sharing the deepest parts of your being with your twin flame, unwavering inspiration and excitement towards your chosen mission in this lifetime, which you intend to fulfill however it will be done.


Truths and Advice:

1. Your twin flame unconditionally loves you into the deepest parts of your being, physically, mentally, spiritually, fully, in all ways.

2. Your twin flame would never leave you (if you are not physically together, your twin can never sever the deep soul connection for it is always there).

3. When you encounter your twin, it is such a beautiful mirror of you for you to see your own beauty reflected back to you, your thoughts, emotions, body, behavior…this is so overwhelming at times in the best of ways.

4. Constant surrendering in each moment to the flow as you release any attachments or expectations as to how the reunion will unfold because unconditional love does not have expectations or attachments…love just is, love just loves.

5. You will need to feel your connection, your love with your twin flame in the deepest parts of your being so that you don’t get discouraged at any point while walking your path.

6. You don’t need to be “perfect” in your mind’s eye in order to step forward in partnership with your twin flame for the love you hold for your twin is the love your twin holds for you – all that you believe is “imperfect” is so beautiful through the eyes of spiritual, unconditional love.

7. There will be many synchronicity throughout your experience, and these will intensify and become more frequent as you are getting closer to reunion.

8. As you get closer to the merging of your hearts as one heart, and the awareness that you have never been separated, as you are ready to be one together, you will attract other soul mates that will help you through this process, to support you and get excited with you – it is important to frequent your time with like energy to welcome in this love.

9. Laughter is also part of the journey and this connection to being free which is such a natural part of our essence of being alive will help you to remain calm and centered during this reunion.

10. Balance the excitement growing within your heart with the calmness surrounding you, breathe out the intensity if you need to.

11. Pay attention to your feelings in every moment, as they help to guide you in the flow, bringing you exactly where you desire to be. Allow yourself to receive.

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